The role of a prenup in modern marriages 

In the intricate landscape of modern marriages, prenuptial agreements, or prenups, play a pivotal role in shaping the financial dynamics between partners. No longer confined to the realm of celebrities and high-profile individuals, prenups have become a valuable tool for couples of all backgrounds. The role of prenups extends beyond safeguarding assets; it involves establishing a foundation for open communication about finances, expectations, and individual responsibilities. In a society where financial complexities are on the rise, prenups provide a proactive approach to addressing potential challenges, ensuring that both parties are on the same page regarding financial matters. Moreover, prenuptial agreements can contribute to a sense of security, fostering a healthier and more transparent relationship by delineating financial boundaries and expectations from the outset. As couples increasingly recognize the importance of financial planning in the longevity of their unions, prenups have evolved into a pragmatic and constructive tool, assisting couples in navigating the delicate balance between love and financial stability.

Love and finances: a delicate balance

In the dance of married life, the interplay between love and finances forms a delicate balance that significantly influences the health of a relationship. Love is the emotional glue that binds couples together, creating trust, intimacy, and mutual support. However, when intertwined with financial matters, this bond can encounter challenges. The management of shared expenses, budgeting decisions, and differing financial philosophies can become sources of tension. Striking the right equilibrium between the emotional aspects of love and the pragmatic aspects of financial responsibility is essential for a successful and enduring partnership. It involves open communication, mutual respect for individual financial goals, and a willingness to navigate challenges together. Recognizing and addressing the nuances of this delicate balance not only fortifies the emotional connection but also lays the foundation for a harmonious coexistence where both love and financial stability thrive hand in hand.

Benefits of a prenup

The benefits of a prenup extend far beyond mere legal protection. At its core, a prenup provides a proactive and transparent approach to managing the financial aspects of a marriage. 

One significant advantage is the assurance of financial security for both parties, as a well-crafted prenup can clearly define the distribution of assets and liabilities in the event of a divorce. For example, you can ensure any debt brought into the relationship remains separate, which can be a huge financial relief for anyone carrying a lot of student loans. 

Moreover, a prenup can contribute to improved communication between partners, fostering a deeper understanding of each other’s financial expectations and goals. This clarity often leads to a reduction in misunderstandings and conflicts related to money matters, promoting a more stable and resilient relationship. 

Additionally, the stress and emotional toll of potential disputes over finances during a divorce can be mitigated by the predetermined terms of a prenup. For instance, you can include a clause in your agreement about joint bank accounts and how finances will be managed during the marriage. This helps prevent arguments over how spending and budgeting will be handled. 

How to initiate the prenup conversation

Bringing up the prenup convo requires delicacy and thoughtful consideration. Timing is critical, and choosing the right moment is essential to avoid unnecessary stress or tension. Ideally, broaching the subject should occur well in advance of the wedding, allowing both partners sufficient time for open and honest discussions. Not only that, but legally speaking, some states have a waiting period requirement, such as California’s 7-day rule. 

Creating a safe and comfortable environment is equally vital; this involves choosing a setting where both individuals feel at ease and can express their thoughts without fear of judgment. Approach the conversation with sensitivity and empathy, emphasizing that the intention behind discussing a prenup is not a lack of trust but a proactive step toward financial transparency and security for both parties. Encouraging open communication about each other’s financial expectations and long-term goals sets the stage for a constructive dialogue. 

Seeking professional advice, such as consulting with a couple’s therapist, can further facilitate the process by providing expert guidance and addressing any legal concerns. Ultimately, initiating the prenup conversation requires a balance of sensitivity, honesty, and a shared commitment to the long-term success of the relationship.

Real-life modern marriage stories 

According to a HelloPrenup survey, 83% of couples felt more connected after utilizing HelloPrenup. Couples who have embraced HelloPrenup share their testimonials, highlighting the positive impact it has had on their relationships. These real-life stories provide inspiration and confidence for those considering HelloPrenup.

Kylie & Sam 

Kylie, a 31-year-old designer residing in Brooklyn, New York, shares her experience navigating the creation of a prenuptial agreement with her wife, Sam. Their decision to pursue a prenup stemmed from a desire for practicality, financial security, and alignment on future goals. As their love story evolved, so did their discussions, seamlessly transitioning from sentimental aspects to the pragmatic consideration of a prenup. Kylie initiated the conversation, emphasizing its mutual importance. Faced with the high cost of traditional legal avenues, the couple sought an affordable solution and discovered HelloPrenup, appreciating its modern approach and user-friendly design. The platform’s simplicity allowed them to enjoy the process, completing the prenup questionnaire over a glass of wine. HelloPrenup’s intuitive design streamlined the legal aspects, providing a comfortable and efficient experience. Kylie and Sam, satisfied with the platform, now feel secure with their finalized prenup, showcasing how HelloPrenup’s innovative, cost-effective, and enjoyable approach transforms the prenup process for couples.

Alex & Annie

Alex, a 30-year-old engineer from California, and his wife Annie embarked on the journey of creating a prenup, emphasizing the importance of transparency, open communication, and a solid financial plan for their modern marriage. They took the initiative to explore different prenup options, considering the impact of family money, wills, trusts, and long-term financial planning. Dissatisfied with the formal and costly nature of interactions with traditional lawyers, they sought a friendlier, cost-effective alternative. Alex’s search led him to HelloPrenup, explaining how the platform offered a well-balanced solution between affordability and legal credibility. Through a speedy and efficient process, completed side by side, Alex and Annie achieved a prenup that not only met their financial requirements but also instilled confidence in the product. Their experience with HelloPrenup showcased how a modern, user-friendly platform could cater to the needs of millennials, emphasizing cost-consciousness, efficiency, and a reasonable prenup discussion.

The future of marriage and financial planning

The future of marriage is intricately linked with evolving trends in financial planning, and navigating this intersection requires a forward-thinking approach. As societal norms shift, couples are increasingly recognizing the importance of proactive financial discussions and planning for the long term. The concept of financial independence and personal autonomy within a marriage is gaining prominence, encouraging couples to maintain individual financial identities while still fostering joint financial goals. Technology and innovative platforms, such as HelloPrenup, are likely to play an integral role in shaping this future, providing couples with accessible tools for comprehensive financial planning.

The bottom line 

To wrap it up, it’s clear that the role of prenups in modern marriages goes beyond legal protections; it acts as a tool for shaping financial dynamics, assisting with open communication, and providing a foundation for a secure and healthy relationship. With a prenup, the delicate balance between love and finances is acknowledged, emphasizing the importance of addressing shared expenses, budgeting decisions, and differing financial philosophies for a successful partnership. 

As modern couples increasingly recognize the need for financial planning, the future of marriage aligns with trends emphasizing personal autonomy and joint financial goals, with innovative platforms like HelloPrenup at the forefront of shaping this evolving landscape.

Frequently Asked Questions (FAQs)

Q: How do I get started with HelloPrenup?

A: Visit the HelloPrenup website and follow the simple steps to begin creating a customized prenuptial agreement.

Q: Can a prenup be revised after marriage?

A: Yes, but it’s a bit complicated. You’ll need attorney assistance to create an amendment. Some states actually make you do a full postnuptial agreement instead of a prenup amendment. Check with your state laws to understand the process of revising your prenup after marriage. 

Q: Is legal consultation necessary for an enforceable prenup?

A: In most cases, no. There are certain instances where you may require a lawyer, such as if you are a California resident who wants to waive or alter alimony in their prenup. If that’s you–then you’ll need legal representation. However, most other states do not require legal representation as a prerequisite to a valid and enforceable agreement. 

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You may be wondering to yourself, “why would I get a prenup? I am happily engaged!” Because prenups do more than just sort out your finances. They also align marital goals, facilitate communication, and get your marriage started with both of you on the same page. So, if you are a bride, stick around to learn more about why you should get a prenup!

Let’s talk marriage

What makes a successful marriage? Strong, consistent, and transparent communication. (We know, we know, cliché, but hear us out). Right now, you may be basking in post-engagement bliss, where everything in your relationship is roses and butterflies, and that’s great! But that doesn’t last forever without hard work and effort. Once you are 5, 10, 15 years into the marriage, romance will evolve, and so will the two of you. You’ll likely each take on potential life changes, such as bringing children into the relationship, extended family issues, financial hurdles (or even just the everyday wear and tear of being a citizen trying to have a social life without dipping into savings). Don’t get us wrong– it can still be romantic, it’s just different. To make it past the seven year itch and beyond, the two of you need to be pros at transparent communication and remain on the same team with aligned goals to maintain that engagement bliss for decades to come. Besides paying taxes, there’s one guarantee in life: you will face challenges that will either strengthen your bond or slowly chip away at it.

The best news? This long-term romance is actually more rewarding than the fleeting romance you both potentially experienced in the first year of being together (also known as the beloved “honeymoon phase”). When you work together as a team and invest your energy and resources into building a life you are both proud of, there’s nothing more romantic than that.

Hold on, how does this relate to a prenup?

A prenup is the ultimate tool to establish healthy communication while covering the essential topics rooted in a successful marriage. The process of getting a prenup lends itself to contemplating, discussing, and negotiating different terms included in a prenup. In other words, a prenup acts as a pre-marital planning tool to get you and your partner on the same page prior to saying “I do.” This, in turn, opens up the door to in-depth conversations about things a couple may not have discussed before (or not as in-depth). For example, having children will be discussed in the prenup process. Do you want kids? How will you provide for the children? Will one of you stay home and forego a career? This needs to be considered when going through the prenup process, among many other hard-hitting topics. 

Lots of couples that get a prenup find that they learn a lot about one another–each other’s life goals, financial goals, expectations of one another, boundaries, and more. In fact, according to a private HelloPrenup study, nearly 84% of the respondents said that they felt more connected with their partner after getting a prenup. The act of planning a future together brings about a better and more profound understanding of each other. And, let’s face it, that’s pretty darn romantic.

Prenup basics

A prenuptial agreement (also known as, “a prenup”) is a private contract between two partners who are about to get married. It’s important to know that a prenup must be signed before getting married. You cannot sign a prenup after the wedding day or else it won’t be enforceable. Prenups should also be put into writing and signed by both partners. That’s right, no verbal prenups or unsigned documents, otherwise you won’t have a valid agreement.

So, what does a prenup do?

Prenups help clarify the financial rights and obligations of each partner while they are married and in the event that the marriage just does not work out. In particular, a prenup agreement outlines property rights between a couple—such as, what property (i.e., bank accounts, cars, investments, inheritances, etc.) and debt (student loans, credit cards, etc.) should be “separate property” (i.e., yours and yours alone) or “marital/community property” (i.e., joint property).

On top of property rights, a prenup can also talk about spousal support (a.k.a. alimony) which addresses how one spouse will financially support the other in the case of a separation (if at all). But, that’s not all, folks! Prenups can also address financial obligations during the marriage–budgets, spending, inheritance, gifts, debt, joint accounts, and more. Prenups can also include clauses about wills, trusts, and estate plans to create a comprehensive plan.  Depending on your state, there are even optional, additional clauses that may make sense for you—think who gets the marital home? What happens to health insurance? Who keeps the pets? And so on and so forth. 

The consequences of not getting a prenup

Without a prenup, the default divorce laws of your state will apply and decide on your behalf how your property will be split up and whether or not alimony is appropriate. To put it bluntly—if you don’t dictate how you’d like your separate and community property to be dictated in a private contract (prenup) before you get married, a court will dictate that for you. Essentially, someone other than you and your partner will decide how your property is divided. So the question is—why let the courts decide what happens to your property when you can decide for yourselves?

Okay, but what are my “default state laws?”

Let’s talk about the two different types of default laws used to decide property division: Community Property vs. Equitable Distribution. If you live in a state that is considered a Community Property state (California, Nevada, Louisiana, Texas, Arizona, Idaho, New Mexico, Washington, Wisconsin), the property you accumulate while married is typically split 50/50, with some exceptions. On the other hand, if you live in an Equitable Distribution state, your property will be split up based on a list of statutory factors laid out by your state (e.g., the age of the parties, the length of the marriage, etc.). The division of property is “equitable” but not always 50/50 (though it can be split equally).

All this to say, courts have a ton of discretion when it comes to dividing up your property and how it’s divided up will also depend on the laws of your state. You may be wondering how a judge could have discretion over YOUR stuff, after all, it is YOUR property, shouldn’t you have a say? Spoiler alert: you DO as long as you have a prenup. If you don’t get a prenup before getting married, and you end up getting a divorce one day, then your “default prenup” (a.k.a. Your state’s divorce laws) will apply.

Do we still need a prenup if we don’t have any property?

Many people come to us wondering if they even need a prenup if they don’t have any money or property yet. Great question! The answer is yes. Why? Because if there’s a chance you will make money sometime during your marriage, or purchase property, or even take out debt, then you may want a prenup to protect it. With a prenup, you can make sure that all of your future assets, income, and debt is sorted out with a prenup.

For example, future income–maybe you don’t make much money now, but you plan to climb the corporate ladder and be the CEO one day. If that’s you, you may want to add in a clause about future income and how you want that to be treated in the event of a separation. Or, let’s say you’re expecting some inheritance.

And most commonly, if you either of you have debt, you should consider a prenup. Why? Debt can become martial and a dual responsibility, even if a divorce occurs. Prenups can segregate debt and make sure any accrued before, during, or after the marriage is the accruer’s responsibility alone.

Yeah, but, prenups are too expensive…right?

Not always! The average prenup costs around $5,000 per couple when using traditional lawyers. And—it’s likely going to take many weeks or months to complete as attorneys are drafting and negotiating your prenup with your partner’s counsel.

But, there’s a much better way. HelloPrenup—the #1 premier prenup platform, offers flat rate pricing of just $599 per couple. No office visits, no adversarial negotiations with attorneys, and can even be done in a single day. HelloPrenup believes prenups should be accessible to every couple who wants one as they are statistically proven to improve the lives of couples and help marriages last and empower the couple to draft their prenup in the comfort of their home—without overspending on money or time (and leaving their entire marriage’s decisions at the fate of two attorneys).

Additionally, attorneys are accessible directly within your account for even just a simple Q&A session if you have burning legal questions. You can even hire an attorney to review your completed agreement to ensure you feel completely comfortable with your clauses.

How does it work? Say no more–it’s super easy to use. We’ve laid out the steps for you below:

• Step 1: Create your HelloPrenup account & invite your fiance
• Step 2: Fill out individual questionnaires
• Step 3: Align on any discrepancies in your answers 
• Step 4: Connect with attorneys in your state if wanted or needed
• Step 5: Download, sign, & notarize your agreement!
• Step 6: Pop the champagne and get ready to walk down the aisle!

Do I need an attorney to create a prenup?

You do not need an attorney to draft a prenup. However, it may be helpful to have an attorney review if you have legal questions, extremely complex assets (think: businesses, trust funds, etc.), or you simply want a sanity-check or peace of mind that an attorney has at least seen your document.

In addition, California has a law requiring attorney representation if you choose to alter alimony (but don’t worry, HelloPrenup has the most affordable, timely, and seamless way to get that signature). By choosing HelloPrenup, you get access to discounted, flat-rate attorney services, from licensed attorneys in your state.

The Bottom Line

If you want a long lasting marriage, you’ll need to invest in one. The key to ensuring “for as long as you both shall live” is to prepare and plan before you tie the knot. Prenups are not just contracts, but tools for communication. They help you and your partner get on the same page and gain a profound understanding of one another before tying the knot. Clarity, expectations, and boundaries are all products of going through the prenup process. From having children to family inheritances to wedding gifts, a prenup can make sure you two start marriage off with a shared future vision. We believe, at HelloPrenup, that sorting out these types of issues prior to walking down the aisle sets your marriage up for success.

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Certain factors need to be considered when planning your special day, such as finding your dream wedding dress, coordinating with vendors, and creating the overall vision for the day. In addition to that, creating your wedding budget is without a doubt a crucial initial step of the wedding planning process. A wedding budget is unique to each individual couple so before diving into wedding planning, the first step is figuring out what your wedding budget will be. Have questions on how you can save and budget for your big day? Maggie Lord, Head of Wedding Planning, has answered some of the top questions real brides have asked when planning. Keep reading to learn more!

Wedding Budget Breakdown

Just like every couple, every wedding budget is unique and slightly different. When you are in the early stages of planning your wedding it is best to use a simple wedding budget breakdown like the one below to estimate how much of your budget you will need to earmark for each wedding vendor. Typically the venue and catering will take up the majority of your wedding budget followed by photography and music.

• Venue and Catering: 40 percent of your budget
• Photography and Videography: 15 percent of your budget
• Music/Entertainment: 10 percent of your budget
• Flowers: 10 percent of your budget
• Décor: 10 percent of your budget
• Wedding Attire and Beauty: 5 percent of your budget
• Transportation: 3 percent of your budget
• Stationery: 3 percent of your budget
• Favors and Gifts: 2 percent of your budget
• Cake: 2 percent of your budget

Overall Wedding Budget FAQs

Wedding planning can be stressful especially when it comes to the wedding budget part of the process, so to help you navigate the financial part of the process we have compiled the most commonly asked wedding budget questions and answers from wedding planning expert, Maggie Lord, Head of Wedding Planning for David’s Bridal.

Why is budget planning for a wedding important?

Wedding budgeting for your big day is super important to help allocate funds for your big day. Having a well-thought-out wedding budget helps to plan for all of the expenses the couple will have and allow them to enjoy the overall planning process more. Creating a budget will reduce some of the stress that can come with wedding planning because it will act as a roadmap for where and when you will spending your money to bring your dream day to life.

When should I start planning my wedding budget?

The earlier the better in the wedding planning process that you can create a wedding budget the better. Every day that passes in the wedding planning process that you don’t have your wedding budget in place you could be spending cash and not know exactly how much of your budget you are dipping into. Couples should start planning their wedding budget 2-3 weeks after they get engaged. It’s nice to have the budget planned and vision board before going out to find venues or dress shopping.

Is it possible to get married for under $10,000?

Yes, you can plan the most incredible wedding for under $10,000. You can save anywhere from 30% to 40% of your overall budget by looking for a free or affordable venue (think local farms, museums, and community spaces). By saving on your wedding venue you’ll still have plenty of wedding budget left to cover your dream dress and all of the extras. Another great way to keep your wedding under the $10K mark is to keep your guests list under 100 people, the less guests you have the less you will need to spend on every part of the wedding including venue space, catering, invitations and everything else.

What is the one thing that people forget to budget for their wedding?

It seems the one thing couples forget to budget for is postage. Stamps are needed when addressing your save-the-dates, invitations, and RSVP cards along with your bridal shower thank you cards and wedding thank you cards. Postage costs especially for large weddings can creep up easily to between $300-$500 before you know it. It is best to add this line item to the “stationery” part of your wedding budget.

What is the first step in creating a budget for a wedding?

Couples should sit down and talk about the top 3 areas that are important to each one of them. While the music, theme and location might be important to one, the other may find that the flowers, guest count and videographer are important to them. So figure out what is most important to you and your partner and this is a great first step on where to start.

Ways to Decrease Wedding Budget FAQs

Now that you know why you need a wedding budget and how to create one we can move on to answering the most frequently asked questions about how to lower your wedding budget.

How do I cut my overall wedding budget?

The fastest way to cut your overall wedding budget is by cutting guests! We know that is one of the hardest things for brides and couples to do but it is the easiest and fastest way to save on your big day. Almost everything you buy for your wedding is a multiple of your guest list. The food, bar, cake, wedding favors, etc all will go down (or up) with your total headcount.

How can I reduce my budget without cutting guests?

Wedding favors and transportation (party bus, limo, etc.) are two of the easiest areas to cut without guests noticing. One other money saving tip is what Maggie Lord calls the “every other” table trick. This tip is to put centerpieces on every other table instead of all of them and to use something more budget friendly like candles on the tables you don’t decorate with floral. This hack will allow for you to save in your overall budget but won’t alter the way the decor looks and feels at your reception.

What’s the most expensive part of a wedding?

Your venue will take up most of your wedding budget and you should earmark around 30% of your total budget for your venue. Right behind the venue is the catering which is roughly around 20% of your overall budget.

Is it more expensive to get married on Saturday?

Yes, it is more expensive to get married on a Saturday and this is because it is the most popular day of the week to say “I do”, so wedding vendors can charge more on this day. To save, you can plan a weekday wedding, and thanks to how popular weekdays weddings have become your guests will not find it strange at all!

Wedding Destination & Dates that Increase Budget FAQs

It is without question that certain destinations and dates can increase the overall wedding budget and that can be attributed to the fact that most couples want to say “I do” in the Summer and Fall. Keep reading to get the answers to the most frequently asked questions on destinations and wedding dates.

Are destination weddings cheaper?

A destination wedding can be a cheaper option, but you will need to factor in travel costs which you might not have to if you were to host your wedding more locally. Many destination weddings have all-inclusive options which help to lower the overall cost. Many tropical destinations options can get pricey in their high travel season which can drive the cost up so it worth doing to research to see how those travel seasons could impact your wedding costs.

Does the season impact the wedding budget?

Yes, Summer and Fall are the most expensive seasons to get married. Many venues will have a slightly lower cost for Winter and early Spring weddings (especially if the venue is in a colder climate).

Wedding Vendors & Favors that Increase Budget FAQs

Wedding vendors are going to take up a substantial amount of your wedding budget so it is crucial to decide which vendors you will contract with and which vendors you could potentially live without on your big day.

Are wedding videographers worth the cost?

At the end of the day, your images and videos are what will be left so I do think it is worth the investment for a videographer. One way to save a little but still have a videographer is to only have them cover the ceremony and reception around 4-6 hours and not the entire day of 10 plus hours of coverage.

Should I give wedding favors?

Wedding favors are a nice way to thank your guests for coming to your event; however, you aren’t obligated to give them out. If you are trying to stay on a tight budget, wedding favors would be the first thing I suggest cutting. If you have your heart set on giving out a wedding favor I suggest some sort of food favor, guests love them and they are rarely left behind.

Wedding Bridal Party Budgeting FAQs

The bridal party is there to support the bride through her wedding planning and of course stand beside her on the wedding day but there are several questions that come up around who should be expected to pay for what when it comes to the bridal party as it would impact the overall wedding budget.

Do the bride and groom have to pay for their bridal party?

No, the bridal party is not responsible to pay for items they will need for the wedding day along with travel and accommodations. If you have it in your budget to cover the cost for your bridal party that is great, but it is not a must and the bridal party should not expect it.

How much should a couple save for last-minute wedding costs?

It is suggested to save between 3-5% of your overall wedding budget for last-minute changes or costs such as overtime fees, travel or transportation fees, or even tax and gratitude.

Who pays for the bachelorette or bachelor party?

Traditionally the bridal party will pay for this event however, if people outside the bridal party are attending then it is customary for them to contribute to the overall cost as well. It is important to understand the bride’s vision for the pre-wedding event so that the bridal party can work to plan something she wants but within the budget that works for everyone.

Wedding Seasons That Increase Budget FAQs

The time of year you want to say “I do” will impact the cost of the event without a doubt. If you are looking to save a little on your budget consider getting married outside of the peak season!

What are the most expensive seasons to get married?

Summer and Fall are the most expensive seasons to say “I do” — this is because these months are the most popular seasons to get married so wedding venues and wedding vendors can charge more and there are many more couples trying to work with the same pool of vendors.

Which months are the cheapest to get married?

December through March are typically a tiny bit cheaper especially if you live in a cold climate location.

Which months are the most expensive to get married?

June through October are the most expensive months to tie the knot.

Wedding DIY Budgeting FAQs

Many couples will take on DIY projects in an effort to save on the wedding budget and while this can be true it sometimes can actually end up costing you more. Take a look at the most popular questions when it comes to wedding DIY’ing and wedding budgets.

Do DIY wedding decorations really save you money?

They can if it is a skill that you or someone you are close to has a talent for. One tip for DIY’ing is that I don’t suggest taking on a new skill like arranging all the florals just to try and save money — this can lead to frustration and may even cost you more in the long run if you have to redo the project multiple times to get it the way you want.

Do you hire a decorator or DIY wedding decorations?

A bride can really go either way on this depending on the style and theme of the wedding and the budget.

Rehearsal Dinner & Honeymoon Budget FAQs

While the rehearsal dinner and honeymoon are not exactly on the wedding day they can impact the wedding budget. See below for all the wedding budget questions around rehearsal dinners and honeymoons.

Who pays for the rehearsal dinner?

Traditionally the groom’s family would pay for the rehearsal dinner but it can also be worked into the overall budget if the couple is paying for it themselves.

Should the couple add their honeymoon to their wedding budget?

Yes, the honeymoon should be added to the wedding budget for sure. This can also be an addition to a wedding registry where your friends and family can gift money to go towards your honeymoon budget.

Other Wedding Budget FAQs

There are a million questions a couple can ask when trying to work out all the details around their wedding budget but we have highlighted a few of the most popular questioned.

What’s a realistic budget for a wedding?

The average cost for a wedding is around $27,000 but the budget will really depend on where and when you host your wedding along with the number of people on your guest list.

What is a good wedding budget for 50/100/150/200/250 people?

What is the groom’s family expected to pay for?

Traditionally the groom’s family pays for the rehearsal dinner and sometimes will also pay for an engagement party. Along with those two events a groom’s family might be able to pay for the wedding band, some of the florals, and perhaps even the entertainment at the wedding reception.

Who typically pays for a wedding?

Traditionally the bride’s parents would pay for the wedding but today we see a wide variety such as the couple paying for it themselves or a combination of both the couple and their families.

What is the cheapest day to get married?

Any day between Monday and Thursday will usually be cheaper than a Friday, Saturday, or Sunday event.

How much should you budget for a rehearsal dinner?

The rehearsal dinner usually is a smaller number of people as the guest list should be just people who have a role in the wedding ceremony plus any VIP’s such as grandparents or close friends. A typical rehearsal dinner generally falls within the $2,000 to $5,000 mark depending on location and number of guests.

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Paper Year Theme 

The traditional first anniversary gift is “paper”. Paper is symbolic of a new beginning! In addition, a first year marriage, being so new is fragile and delicate and can be easily torn apart. It must be handled with patience, kindness love with a focus on building trust. The threads of a paper represent the connectivity and strength of the new relationship. A new start of a life together. Fill your party with paper lanterns and paper decorations as an ode to this first anniversary theme.

Book a Photoshoot

The first anniversary is a special one celebrating your renewed love. Enjoy the memories of the 1st year and the new ones ahead of you. Take the time to plan the perfect wedding anniversary photo shoot to celebrate the occasion. Whether you had a photo shoot pre-wedding or wedding day – the 1st anniversary photo shoot can be casual, carefree and more impromptu. The pressure is off and you and your special love can focus on the two of you. Head outdoors to your favorite venue – the best photos are taken outdoors from the hours between 4-6 pm. This is the “Golden Hour”, so enjoy and make some photo perfect memories to last.

Casual BBQ

Try a casual BBQ to celebrate the 1st year together. Invite both sides of the family and your close friends. Make it a personal and casual get together to enjoy in a more intimate setting where you can talk, laugh and kick back. The pressure of the wedding day is off, so enjoy and embrace the first year celebration. Ask everyone to bring a favorite dish to lessen the planning and work load for a casual but memorable celebration.

Your Wedding Theme

Another option is to relive the theme from your wedding. Did you save a slice of cake for your first anniversary? Have a smaller version of your wedding day cake – while you and your spouse share the original cake slice. Make is special – share your vows again, dance, laugh, have your signature cocktail from your big day on display. Anything that celebrates the couple you are after your first year! Enjoy this milestone.

Second Honeymoon

Maybe you never took the first honeymoon or just love to travel! Your first anniversary is a great time to plan a trip. Make it a romantic trip to honor your first year and also to plan more memories in the second year. It is so important to work on your relationship and take the time for each other. It is something to look forward to and gets you back to a more relaxed way of life from the hectic day to day.

4 Things To Consider When Celebrating a Year Later

If you go the route of throwing a party and want to celebrate with your friends and family, it is important to consider a few things beforehand. See below for some first wedding anniversary ideas to have in mind during the planning process.

1. Consider Your Decor

All the rules get thrown out the window when it comes to decorations for this type of wedding event. You can have as formal or as casual of a celebration as you and your partner see fit. That goes for the overall décor, style and theme for this second celebration.

Some couples might choose to incorporate elements from their wedding day in this at event. You can bring in key aspects like color or motifs, or subtle nods to from the destination where you tied the knot. Another option is to display photos from your original celebration so your larger group of friends and family can see what your scaled-back ceremony looked like. Think about displaying photos on a special table or show a slideshow so guests have a chance to get a glimpse into your special day.

2. Dress Options for a Second Celebration

A year-after wedding party or anniversary reception calls for a more casual look when it comes to attire. Think short wedding reception dresses, celebration style dresses, or a comfortable jumpsuit. You can keep it traditional with the color white or make a statement with a bold shade or pattern. Another option? Alter your wedding gown and reimagine your favorite dress to wear a second time!

3. Re-reading of your vows

It might be fun for you and your partner to reread the vows you exchanged to celebrate the first anniversary as a married couple. Feel free to share this special moment as a couple or you can also incorporate it into the celebration to share with loved ones.

4. A Word On Traditions

The wonderful thing about throwing a first wedding anniversary party is you get to call the shots on any and all wedding traditions. The beauty of having a celebration a year later means you can curate whatever type of event that represents you and your partner. Because of this, you can focus on this milestone and cherish this celebration of love with your guests.

Celebrating Love A Year Later

Now that we have covered first wedding anniversary party ideas, it’s time to start planning a special celebration. Spend time as a couple deciding the best approach for you. Take your time and plan ahead to keep the planning and celebration stress-free. This should be a time for reflection on the past year and a celebration for the many years ahead. Taking time for each other is such an important part of strengthening your relationship to enjoy the good times and support each other through the tough ones. Cherish the moments you have with each other and make your first anniversary a special event shared with your family and friends.

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How to Find a Wedding Venue: 7 Tips

1. Pick an Alternative Wedding Day

Wedding venues book up quickly since most couples are requesting a Saturday wedding date. By expanding your search and hosting your event on an alternate day, you might have more luck in choosing your dream venue. In recent years, more and more events are being held on a Thursday or Friday evening or even Sunday afternoon, making Saturday no longer the only day to consider. Beyond just considering alternative days for your event you should consider hosting a morning wedding or a brunch event. Having a weekday wedding not only might help you find a venue but can also be a budget saver as well.

2. Look for Non-traditional Wedding Venues

Museums, historical buildings, libraries, colleges, and yachts are all just a few of the alternatives to traditional wedding spaces that can work well for weddings. By considering a non-traditional wedding venue you significantly increase your chances of finding a wedding venue with availability. Locating a venue that is unique and special will also make it a memorable day for both you and your guests.

3. Research Off-Season Hotels + Resorts

Many destinations such as ski resorts will open their doors for weddings in the summer months. Since it is off-peak from their regular services this makes it a great option for availability. Another great resource to investigate is summer camps. These spaces often host weddings in the fall and spring months before their high summer camp season.

4. Consider a Private Residence For Your Wedding

There is a chance you can find your dream wedding venue in your own backyard or at a private residence. Check-in with friends or family to evaluate your options. Another great idea is to check out a popular rental listing site such as Airbnb or vrbo.com. If you do rent a house for your event, you will first just want to make sure hosting an event at the location is permitted. Along with that, it is important to see if you need insurance or paperwork to ensure no hiccups along the way.

5. National Parks

If you are planning to elope or want to have an epic outdoor wedding, National Parks are a great option. Many National Parks offer spaces to host a wedding making it both convenient and beautiful all at the same time. Often, you’ll find that these breathtaking backdrops are hidden gems. They have endless potential to create a personalized, unique wedding theme and event space.

6. Read Trusted Wedding Blogs

Utilize the internet and online sources when you can! Trusted wedding blogs have a wealth of information and can provide unique ideas for a wedding venue. Many highlight specific locations, cities and off the beaten path venues that may just be the ideas you have been searching for. These blogs focus on seasonal and trendy options that you might not otherwise consider. The blog ideas can be helpful alone and/or get your creative mind thinking of perfect options for your wedding day venue.

7. Ask Friends and Family

Lastly, searching for anything, even a wedding venue is easier when you enlist the help of friends and family. Start spreading the word about what type of venues you are looking for and you might be surprised at the number of suggestions that start flooding in.

A Final Tip for Finding Your Perfect Wedding Location

Take the stress out of planning your wedding venue by being open-minded and creative. Some of the most memorable weddings take place in the most non-traditional places. Be flexible if you can and you might be surprised to find your dream venue available in off-season or during the week. Guests are getting accustomed to weekday weddings and understand the challenges of venue availability. Venue options for your style and budget are possible and keep in mind many venues can be personalized to create your dream wedding event setting. So, start searching to create the most memorable day of your life and let the wedding planning process begin!

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As a bride, you’ll spend a lot of time thinking and dreaming about what you’ll wear on your wedding day and for all the events surrounding the wedding, but don’t forget about wedding lingerie.  Your wedding is a great excuse to treat yourself to a few pretty, lacy things to make you feel beautiful on your wedding day, honeymoon and beyond. Read on for our top bridal lingerie essentials for the bride-to-be.

Bridal Getting Ready Outfit

Since the photo opps will likely start before you put the dress on, you’ll want something cute and comfortable to wear while you’re getting ready. A bridal robe or matching set is an excellent option because you won’t risk messing up your hair or makeup when it’s time to put on your wedding gown. We have dozens of options to suit your style: lacy, floral, monogram, and more. Throw on some cozy bridal inspired slippers to complete to the look!

Style FBBRIDEROBE & BRIDES2, BRIDESL1 & WPD29974RW

Shapewear Essentials For Under Your Dress

Wedding undergarments build a foundation for your dress and will ensure your gown looks and feels best on your wedding day. Shapewear is intended to enhance your favorite assets and make sure you feel supported throughout the day. At your bridal appointment, ask your stylist for recommendations based on your dress style.

Style DM0049, 12622, DM2550

Bridal Lingerie For The Wedding Night

As the night is winding down after your reception, you’ll want to slip into something a little more comfortable. A silky chemise or babydoll slip is perfect to snuggle in before saying goodnight. Add a hint of “something blue” for the perfect wedding night hue.

Style 2650BD, D039, 5310963O, GTR004

Honeymoon Lingerie

Searching for the perfect honeymoon lingerie? These styles are equal parts romantic and playful! A chemise or lace bodysuit is a must-pack for your romantic getaway.

Style DB2002, 7187, DB2026

Loungewear For The Newlywed

The wedding and honeymoon may be over but the newlywed phase is just beginning! Flaunt your new status as you relax and enjoy those “just married” moments. Whatever your ideal loungewear consists of, we have you covered with sleep sets, swimsuits, bridal jackets, and accessories.

Style WPD29379, PLDB8027, SNBB01, SW4000

Anniversary Lingerie

Treat yourself to fun and flirty anniversary lingerie so you can feel beautiful and confident on this special occasion. These sexy lingerie sets offer a variety of textures and details guaranteed to get hearts racing.

Style DB22154, 21109, REINA

Do you have all your bridal lingerie essentials? Shop these & more styles at davidsbridal.com.

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What better backdrop for “I do” than the sand and the sea? Use the seaside setting of your destination wedding as the inspiration for your whole day, from nautical invitations to beach-worthy jewelry. Having a beachside ceremony? Keep reading for more beach destination wedding ideas!

Destination Wedding Gowns

Start your new adventure surrounded by natural beauty with a gorgeous wedding gown to match! These romantic silhouettes and breezy fabrics provide an effortless elegance that will pair perfectly with your beachside ceremony.

Style WG4032, WG3827, SDWG0815

Breezy Bridesmaids

Flowy, feel-great silhouettes your friends will love! These sunset hues are perfect for a mix & match bridesmaids look that will be sure to create a standout look for your bridal party.

Style W11885 in Sand, F20320 in Desert Coral, F20235 in Sedona, F20607 in Cinnamon, F20609 in Golden

Sparkly Sandals

A fancier option for flip-flop lovers! Add some sparkle to your look with these dazzling and comfortable sandals & flip flops — perfect for a destination wedding!

Styles: STARLET, KAYA, BRIDEFF3, SP2211

All the Details

Tuck back your windblown hair with a gorgeous veil or add some dazzle with a beaded sash, necklace, and some statement earrings! Accessories will make all the difference in adding some glam to your special day.

Style SP223347E, DB213303, FA216704, V825 & V814

Custom Favors

Guests will love a personalized gift that commemorates the day! Give a cute tote to everyone in your party or gift cute souvenirs so everyone can remember your big day.

Styles: EB3307TPB, EB3216TRP, EB3166TRP

Tropical Decor

Did someone say destination wedding? Add some tropical decor and nautical elements to bring your beach destination wedding to life!

Styles: 22112NA, 28548NA, 18211WT, 20125BL, 28551NA

Summer Gear

Stay cool, look cool. Add some personalized gear to your summer wedding wishlist! These summer wedding must-haves are perfect for a pool day at your bachelorette party or even on your honeymoon!

Styles: EB3113TRP, EB3270P, EB3342WDDB1

So tell us, are you planning a destination wedding? If so, shop these wedding dresses, gifts & decor, and accessories online at davidsbridal.com!

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Thinking about your first dance, but have no idea where to start? You’re in the right place. From picking a song to choreographing your steps, planning your wedding dance can get a little overwhelming. To help ease the stress, WeddingDance.net offers wedding dance online tutorials that you can learn in the comfort of your own home! Whether you’re a dancing queen or have two left feet, read on for everything you need to know about these wedding dance online tutorials (including a discount code specifically for David’s Bridal brides)!

Meet the Pros

Perfect your first dance with the pros! WeddingDance.net was created & founded by Pasha Pashkov & Daniella Karagach, best known for their roles on Dancing With The Stars & World of Dance. These world-renowned dance champions are experts when it comes to checking off this wedding to-do!

Pick your Song

The first step you’ll take is picking your wedding song. This is something you’ll want to do together since it truly is a reflection of your personality and love story. Our favorite way to pick? Take a long drive with your partner and listen to your favorite playlists to find the perfect song.

Choose Your Course

We know every couple is different, which is why we love that WeddingDance.net offers three different wedding dance online tutorials based on your needs. And the best part? You’ll have unlimited access to your course material up until your wedding date.

Level 1: DIY

Perfect for the couple who’s looking for some guidance but wants to put their own spin on things. The DIY course provides you with all your dancing must-haves. From basic steps to posture tips, this level will teach you everything you’ll need to get started choreographing your dance. The dance moves provided in this course level are designed to pair with any song, so you can mix and match the moves you learn to create an extra special first dance!

Level 2: Turn-Key

This course level takes the pressure off perfecting your first dance. The turn-key option provides you with a full choreographed dance to your selected wedding song. You’ll receive a step-by-step video featuring the pros that you can watch and learn from up until the day of your wedding. With 130+ fully choreographed dances to popular first dance songs, you’re guaranteed to find the perfect match.

Level 3: Custom

Want a dance that’s personalized specifically to you & your partner? The custom course option is for you! Within this plan, you’ll get your choice of any wedding song and receive a fully choreographed first dance that’s tailored to your wedding day. Just like in all the previous courses, you’ll receive a break-down video showing you each step that you can watch and learn at your own pace.

Your first dance is such a special moment during your big day and shouldn’t be forgotten about! Ready to check off this wedding to-do? Click here to check out WeddingDance.net. Plus, take an extra 30% off your purchase with code BRIDAL80, for a total savings of 80% – exclusively for David’s Bridal brides!

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Have you heard the news? Our Diamond Loyalty Program hit 1 million Diamond Members! To celebrate, we’re throwing a party for our 1 million BFFs—and what’s a party without favors?

This 3-day in-store event will offer huge savings on top of Diamond Member Pricing and the chance to win diamond earrings—but you have to be a Diamond Member, so sign up for free today!

10-50% off + the chance to win diamond earrings

You read that right! Stop by your local David’s Bridal store 4/19–4/21 to reveal mystery savings + enter for the chance to be one of 20 lucky Diamond Members to win a pair of diamond earrings!

How it works:

1. Visit your local David’s Bridal Store Tuesday, 4/19 through Thursday, 4/21
2. Scan the QR code located at the welcome desk or register
3. Instantly reveal mystery savings: 10-50% off your entire purchase (on top of Diamond Member Pricing!)

Let the fun begin! Find a store or book an appointment!

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You’ll soon discover that not all of the people you sent a wedding invitation will make it. Whether you have loved ones who passed away, close friends who live out of state, or a family member in the military, not having those people celebrate the most important day of your life might feel disappointing. However, you can still honor those who can’t attend your wedding by doing a few things. Check out these ideas to ensure you feel the presence of your loved ones on your wedding day:

Carry a locket on your bouquet

If a close friend or family member passed away before the wedding, you can carry them close to you during the event by attaching a bouquet locket on your flowers. Sincerely Capri’s lockets are made to incorporate your loved ones in your big day. Their lockets are completely customizable with options for photos, engravings, designs, and even colors.

The coin-sized charm easily weaves onto the ribbon that holds your bouquet together. This sentimental idea is nice because you’ll have a keepsake picture even after the big day is over – wear it as an everyday locket, place it by your bed or keep it in your purse.

How to design your personalized locket

1. Pick your locket. Choose between champagne, silver, or a blush wedding bouquet locket.

2. Customize with an engraving. Explore flexible placement, font, and size options. There’s even the option to use a loved one’s handwriting.

3. Upload your image. Sincerely Capri offers complimentary photo printing, just pick your favorite image of your loved one to have inside the locket.

Light a candle

Flames are a significant metaphor because they represent life. If a fire goes out, you say the flame has died. Keep your loved one’s memories alive by lighting a candle in their honor at your wedding. The Personalized In Loving Memory Cylinder is the perfect vessel for a floating candle display. Fill it with water and place a candle on the surface. You can even write a personal message that will appear on the cylinder.

Reserve a seat

No matter the reason a person can’t be at your wedding, you can remind yourself and your guests that they should be there with a picture or a personalized wedding memorial sign. Place a framed 8 x 10-inch photo of the person on one of the chairs at your ceremony. If the person can’t attend your nuptials because they are in the military, make sure the image you get is of them in uniform – the other guests will understand why they aren’t around.

Write a program mention

Devote a page of your programs to the mention of loved ones who have passed away. Keep your message short and sweet, with something heartwarming like this:

“In Memory of those who are no longer here
Although we cannot see you,
We know that you are here.
We feel the warmth of your smile,
And can sense that you are near.

And we want for you to know,
Your love is still our guide,
Memories carried in our hearts,
You are always at our side.”

Make verbal mention

During either your ceremony or toasts, make an explicit comment about the people you wish could attend but aren’t around. You may make a statement like “I just want to take a moment to recognize my cousin John, who couldn’t attend because he is serving our country in Iraq,” or something similar. You can also ask the officiant to call for a moment of silence in honor of your loved ones who passed away.

Leave a spot open

If the people who can’t make your wedding are in the bridal party, leave their position open. For example, stand the rest of the bridal party where they normally would, rather than filling in a spot. If a groomsman fell ill or something similar, have his bridesmaid partner walk without him. The open spot will tell guests that someone was supposed to be there.

Offer digital attendance

Video chat websites make virtual wedding attendance a possibility. Set up a camera to record and stream your ceremony and invite faraway loved ones to watch.

Design a photo board

Cover a poster board with photos of your friends and family who could not (for whatever reason) attend the wedding. You can frame the collage and write captions to inform other guests of why the board is up. Consider putting it out during cocktail hour so guests can fill the time.

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